How To Use A Large Dildo

Looking to expand when it comes to your pleasure? Our large dildos are a must-have in your own personal collection! If you’re ready for the challenge, read through our guide here before trying one of our huge dildos and prep yourself for even more mind-blowing sexperiences.

How To Get The Most Pleasure From Your Large Dildo

If you’re not used to dildos that are longer and thicker in size, it’s important to take time to prepare yourself before you insert the toy inside you. Here are several tips you can use to get yourself ready for your supersized toy:

1. Foreplay first.

Get yourself going by enjoying foreplay first, whether it’s with your partner or by yourself. You can masturbate or engage in oral sex before you use the dildo; your natural lubricant will help ease the dildo inside you. Your mindset is what will help determine if you can handle the size or not; if you’re not relaxed and aroused, you’re more likely to resist the toy and make it harder to insert inside you because you’re too tense.

2. Lube up.

Long-lasting and thick lubricant is essential when you’re experimenting with larger sex toys, especially if you want to try anal play with your dildo. Silicone lubricants are typically the type of lube that doesn’t need frequent application, so they’re better to use when you want zero interruptions. You can also use hybrid lubes that combine silicone and water lubricant formulas into one; e.g., Sliquid Lubricants Silk Hybrid Silicone Water Lubricant.

3. Warm up with smaller dildos.

Go slow and stretch yourself open gradually by using smaller dildos or other sex toys like vibrators before using your larger dildo. Your body will adjust as you increase the size, and this will also help you relax, which is crucial when you’re trying a bigger toy. You may need several sessions of practice with smaller adult toys. Make sure to use lubricant.

4. Find the perfect position.

You want to be in a comfortable position that allows you to open up completely before you insert the dildo inside you. You can try lying on your back and placing a pillow under your rear to give yourself more height, which also helps you slide the toy deeper inside you. Another position to try is squatting over your dildo or getting on your knees with your legs spread and placing your dildo right underneath you. Some may find that placing a large suction cup dildo on the wall, window, door, etc., and inserting the dildo hands free at a certain angle (e.g., taking the dildo from behind) a lot easier than other positions. Experiment until you’re in the best position when you want to use a jumbo-sized dildo toy.

Our Large Dildo Recommendations

Large dildos typically range from 7.5-12 inches in length, and many of them have a lifelike cock design to add a more realistic touch to your experience. To give you a better idea of the different kinds of large dildos we have, we want to highlight some of our popular ones here:

Real Feel Deluxe No.12 Vibrating 12 Inch Dildo

Perfect for pleasure seekers who want a 2-in-1 toy, the Real Feel Deluxe No. 12 is a mammoth of a dildo that the most experienced can handle. If you want the biggest and the baddest dong around, this 12-inch dildo is ideal for size queens who want more of a challenge. This realistically designed dildo has a suction-cup base that allows you to enjoy hands-free pleasure on any flat and smooth surface (e.g., glass doors, tile walls, and more).

Doc Johnson Black Thunder Realistic Dildo 12 Inch

As one of our signature black dildos available, the Black Thunder is a 12-inch wonder that has a dramatically curved shaft that’s designed to hit your G-spot every time for maximum vaginal stimulation. This is a porn star molded dildo cloned from the famous adult film star, Black Thunder. If you’re a fan of his, now you can make your wildest fantasies more realistic with this exciting and extra long dong. This dildo also features a suction-cup base for hands-free fun.

Curved 8.25 Inch Penis Vibrating Dildo

This eye-catching and mega-sized dildo is one of our colorful additions in our Large Dildos collection, and this sex toy is great for women who want a dildo in a different color other than the classic white or black. As a dildo-vibrator hybrid toy, this Cal Exotics exclusive delivers incredible sensations to tease and please your inner and outer sweet spots. It’s also curved and has a hefty 8.25-inch length for more thrilling vaginal stimulation.

Belladonna's Bitch Fist

Want to experience fisting play? Here’s an extra large sex toy shaped into a fist! The Belladonna’s Bitch Fist is a realistically designed toy that is shaped from the adult star, Belladonna, and gives you a completely different experience compared to the usual dildo toy. You can also try The Hand as an alternative.

Doc Johnson Crystal Jellies 12 Inch Double Dildo

Enjoy double penetration with a double dildo like the Doc Johnson Crystal Jellies. Double dildos have two ends that can be inserted inside you, and you can use both sides simultaneously for vaginal and anal pleasure. These double-ended joysticks can also be used with a partner for joint penetration, making your lovemaking more satisfying and intimate when you bring a toy into the bedroom.

Mack Tuff Vibrating Inflatable Black Dildo

With an inflatable sex toy like the Mack Tuff dildo, you can customize the girth and enjoy the thrills of a thicker cock inside you! This dildo features a pump that releases air into the dildo and makes the toy expand, giving you a more arousing stretching sensation that you can’t resist. This realistic dong also doubles as a vibrator and has a remote control attached to make managing the vibration modes easier.

Make sure to check out our Sex Essentials collection to stock up on high-quality, long-lasting lubricants when you want to take on the big boys!

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